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ADAPT WITHOUT STRESS (Part 1)
However, bringing elderly parents or a wife to the Czech Republic is worth doing. Life here is quieter, calmer, crime rate is lower, healthcare is better, daily life is organized, and overall stability. But even these 'voluntarily exiled' people encounter many problems? What kind? This is a question for psychologist Alexander Kuzin.
– Many elderly people, many women living in the Czech Republic separately from their children or husbands, are in a kind of vacuum. All because they lack basic human contact, basic human support. Another point: when society is structured in a foreign country, they have nowhere to apply themselves. When a woman or an elderly person lives on money received from relatives back home, they don't need to work, and Czech society is much more comfortable than in Russia. And as a result, these people have quite a lot of free time.
Many are unhappy because they don't find purpose. It's good that the internet, social clubs, interest clubs exist. Including among the Russian-speaking diaspora in the Czech Republic. And these clubs, activities in them, help many find like-minded people, feel needed, spend time among their peers. To find all this, what is needed is not so much energy but desire. Because the organizers of these events have the necessary energy. And of course, if you have free money, you can pay for comfortable leisure, events, trips, travels, hikes to be created for you.
– So, someone's parents, someone's wife are not happy with their emigrant life. A person feels uncomfortable, although from the outside everything seems normal or even wonderful. And this makes it even worse. Who do people begin to blame? Themselves? Or the children and husbands who sent them to the Czech Republic? Where does this 'energy of discontent' spill out?
– Everyone finds their own way out. Some begin to blame others for the situation. Those who are not around are to blame. Or those who seem to be around but do not devote enough time to contacts, communication, calls. People vent this dissatisfaction with their lives by searching for the guilty. And others begin to experience depression and dejection. What awaits me next? Is all my future just this apartment, nearby shops, and maybe resorts, if we talk about those who live, for example, in Karlovy Vary. And the lives of these people become unbearably boring and uninteresting.