Having decided to settle permanently in a foreign land, it is necessary to consider that the criteria of life in each country are different. And any newcomer will have to come to terms with them. Whether you are going to visit new foreign acquaintances or want to buy a car, remember – you need to do it by completely different rules. After all, as you know, it is not advisable to bring your own rules to a foreign monastery. So it is you who will have to change your preferences and habits. It is unlikely that the surrounding world will adapt to you.
By the way, psychologists assure that it is the difficulties of adapting to a foreign mentality that become the main reason for people fleeing from a non-native country. True, a little patience, calmness, and attentiveness help to quickly get used to life abroad.
But at first, it is difficult for everyone. At the same time, the main problem that worries newcomers is interpersonal relationships. And if you can more or less acquire friends and acquaintances, then with a life partner some difficulties may arise. The fact is that representatives of different countries approach this issue differently.
For example, in one African tribe, the final word belongs to the woman. The young ladies choose their husband at a specially organized festival, where men put on a whole show with dancing and singing. At its conclusion, the girls finally give preference to one of the contenders. However, it is unlikely that anyone's fate will take them that far. This information is rather of the 'curious' variety.
But many dream of going to the United States of America. Moreover, for girls, marriage is the best opportunity to obtain local citizenship. Today, you can find everything online: catalogs of cars, household appliances, and grooms. The thing is that Ukrainian women are very popular in the West. At the same time, practice shows that the information foreign grooms have about brides from the former Soviet republics is very outdated.
It's no secret that American and European men often prefer Slavic women because they count on their commitment to the patriarchal way of life. They say such a wife will obey in everything, not demand much attention, and carry all the household chores, not even needing a maid. But modern Russian or Ukrainian women are far from that.
Moreover, Americans and Europeans, in most cases due to their innate pragmatism, prefer accomplished women, that is, those who have already finished their studies and have a more or less stable job.
Becoming the wife of a true Muslim, in principle, is practically impossible. In countries that preach this religion, arranged marriages are usually contracted. They are rarely international. The parents of the groom and bride agree among themselves and simply marry off their children. Moreover, the wife must be healthy. After all, she is to give birth to numerous offspring. In addition, she is obliged to indulge her husband in everything, to be inconspicuous and modest.
It is unlikely that such prospects will attract women from other countries. These qualities are cultivated from birth and in the appropriate environment.
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